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My Theory About Love

When you are upset about your relationship, try to think of why you are falling in love during the first place. What do you want from it? Just like choosing your favorite icecream bar at the 7-Eleven. What kind of feelings do you want that icecream bar to give you? If it is giving you too much chocolate and too much bitterness, are you going to finish eating it?

Love & Ice Cream Bars

I believe most of you will not finish eating it. Same as love, if your relationship is giving you the feelings other than what you want, you should stop it from going further. Holding on an unsuccessful relationship will make you angry, insecure, and sick. It is also true with long distance love as well. Why waste your time loving someone far away? Life is short, anything that involves waiting is not worth it. Unless waiting will give you the ultimate return like holding a big amount of blue chip stocks.

Closing The Door

The ultimate downside for dragging a relationship is that you will close the door for others. Your potential perfect match will turn away because you are already in a relationship. Back to the the icecream bar example. If you are struggling and trying to finish that bitter bar, you will limit your time for trying a different bar which may eventially give you that sweet taste you are liking for.

The Conclusion

I am not trying to seperate people. But living life and enjoying life is our ultimate goal. If anything blocks our way to that goal, it should be removed immediately. Why wait? The next time you are upset about your relationship, try to think with yourself being most important. Think about why you are crying instead of smiling, and your mind will be cleared from obstacles.

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Inspiration Monday - A Strong Relationship Helps You Succeed

I had always wanted to write about relationship and success. They are in fact interrelated to each other. After reading “The Number One Reason for My Internet Success” on John Chow’s blog, I would like to expand on this thought about relationship on this week’s Inspiration Monday.

A great deal of inspiration and motivation come from your loved one. A good relationship between you and your partner will increase your chance of being successful. Why? It’s simple. The number one motivation a person can get is support. Without support, you will most likely fall apart and give up on your goal. Sure you can get support from your friends, but what matters the most is your wife/husband or girlfriend/boyfriend.

Behind Every Successful Man is a Woman

John Chow is totally right on this. I guess this is programmed into most Chinese men. A good relationship with your partner will provide you with a good environment for building your success. Whenever you hit a roadblock, he/she will be there to motivate you and encourage you to keep going. Without a good relationship, your path to success will be extremely long. If you are still single, go find your significant other as soon as possible.

I am not yet as successful as John, but we do have one thing in common. My motivation and inspiration come largely from the woman behind me.

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